Saturday, August 9, 2008

The Relationship Artist: Are You In Love??

Are You In Love??
I want to talk about the "L" word for a moment. Right, you guessed it........love. No three little words in human history have shaken the foundations of our emotional state as I Love You. Have you heard those three little words lately? When you did, how did it make you feel? Every one of us are in one level or another of love. From head spinning ecstasy to just a care above mowing the grass, love affects us in a way that is profound. What exactly is this powerful force?

I've read all sorts of psychological journals trying to figure it out, but end up more confused than ever. Deep down, it is something that really can't be cubby holed with definitions and psycho babble. Love is the state of oneness with a supposed stranger..... a person who maybe only a few short months earlier was completely unknown to us. Is it possible to be swept into a whirlwind of emotions by someone we have just met? Does "love at first sight" really exist or is it just our own wishful thinking to be cared for unconditionally by another? I believe it does.

I've always believed that love is the energy that drives Heaven. Just as we have oxygen and light and food to live on here on Earth, love is the driving force for our souls to live on. It is the most powerful of all emotions. I think when you feel real love; you have connected with another soul in Heaven. It is the crossing of two paths. The path you share is intertwined with everyone else on Earth, but some you can recognize more than others. Why is it that when you fall in love someone you seem to have instant familiar feelings? You finish each other's sentences, and feel like you have known them your whole life. They complete you as if you were never quite finished until you met them.

Attraction.....yes. Caring for each other......yes.

But what is with the feeling of overwhelming familiarity? It is because you do know them. And you have for a long, long time. The great thing about falling in love is that it is not just a happenstance of luck. It is a reconnection, if you will. The soul in another that you have finally reconnected with that you have been searching for. You cross paths with people everyday. We eat together, work together, and play together. We have many acquaintances and friends........but love is always a surprise. It seems to come out of nowhere. But love is no accident and there is no real surprise.

When you finally touch base with the soul of another, you know it. The search comes to an end, but the real connection begins to unfold. There is everything in the Universe to be happy about. What seems like a one in a billion chance has just come true. I Love You has alot of meanings. When you hear it do you believe it? What does it mean to you? You need to know just how precious and rare reconnecting with the eternal soul of another is. And when it happens, you need not fear it. Make it the most worthwhile activity and nurture it as a delicate plant. Know that you have been given the greatest gift of all and make it your priority number one. A heavenly gift?

Absolutely!

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