Wednesday, July 30, 2008

The Relationship Artist: Creating Love

What makes you happy? How do you want to look? What kind of house or car do you want to own? And what kind of relationship do you want to be in? Visualize yourself in each of these situations and paint the picture of your next moment. Think about these snapshots as much as you can, everyday. I know, our third grade teacher told us to stop 'daydreaming' in class, but what you may not realize is that those dreams shaped much of our future. Daydreams feel good to us.....they are comfortable and fun. But let's turn our escapism into something constructive. Let's turn those fantasies into realities. You don't have to wander off inside your head and neglect your responsibilities, but when you picture yourself, which we do dozens of times a day, think of the "you" you want to be.

Choosing an image of yourself and seeing your life in a different light will begin to change your future. Your body, your world, and your attitudes toward yourself will be how you want them. Tell yourself "I'm beautiful" and visualize how you want to look. Tell yourself "I'm great" and picture yourself as great. Tell yourself "I know that I can do anything' and visualize what you want to do and what you want to be. Your reality will change accordingly. You are in control of which way your life will turn. No one else can do that for you. That's the real beauty of being human. We have the power of creation.

Over time, you will begin to wholeheartedly believe it. You will see the changes in your life, your job, and your social life. You will see changes in the way you speak and feel. You will see someone different in the mirror. You know you can do anything you want and be anything you want to be. You will be the whole and complete individual that's important to a solid relationship. Of course, when you believe it's true, so will everyone else. You will be great and the world will know it. When all the pieces fit together, the beautiful landscape of your life will be there for all to see. Someone else with similar beliefs in themselves will take notice. They will be attracted to your great attitude, positive outlook, and completeness of soul. They will find you a "kindred spirit" and want to be closer. This is how you will create the relationship you need.

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